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Happy New Year to Everyone of You

Thanks again to some of my loyal followers a .. This blog still growing steadily with the support of you all :)

2010 year in REVIEW

Before the began of 2011 , I would like to write something about myself in 2010 .

19 years old at 2010 , I will called myself a ' Special One ' =D .I'm a student which I think is very unique because of some reasons .I'm also a prayer and I believe in GOD . Other than that , I love being who I am .

This year ,it took me a little bit to get over for not achieving my goals in study .I don't even know how long was it I have been struggling and how disappointed for myself to feel . Damn ! I wasn't expecting it at all.

Anyhow , my feeling was always that I going to come back pretty tough and strong after this . That's why I called my self special one . I could feel it , I felt that I always different from the others especially in terms of studying .

Though I've always been supported by my family and relatives as well as some of my mates , most of the times , I had to deal with things all by myself . I had to make my bed all by myself , had to do part time job to best support my daily expenses and so on . To be short , I'm doing things I'm sure a regular student at that age doesn't do or shouldn't worry about . I feel I grew a lot and I was basically forced to mature quickly and become a man .

The next things which also took me a bit to get over is relationship . No girl friend at these moment so got nothing to talk about =D

Finally of course there many good things as well as bad things which will happen in my future . I will be positive because what I think is what i will become .

Handphone

(Have to use this angle to capture the photos to enhance its special=D)

This is my first phone . Tell you all a secret --I never bought any phones before . I dont feel like buying handphone because I sincerely thought it would be better to waste no money on it . I have other phones given by my family but at the end i still LOVING THIS one and i intended to use back this .

Merry Merry Christmas !!

Larian Serentak 1 Malaysia

Woke up at 5.40 today just for the run I signed up recently .ahhem... for ur info , tis run is so called ONE MALAYSIA run ==



Well , gotta say i was pretty much looking forward about this run . I guess same to my coursemates joining me : MR Kok Onn , Terrance Lim and Christine phang . HAVE A ROLL!



Then at around 7.45 a.m. , we match to the starting point. I didnt go for the very front row because when u saw those Indians a , i already know i no hope liao plus the purpose of i joining this RUN is different from last time liao . All i want is JUST FUN ONLY lo..........
We wait wait and wait . Then soon later , i realized this is the worst run i have ever participate in . We wait till 8.20 like that for the arrival of our Prime Minister's wife to flag off the run . ( Not to mention that i sacrificed my first time sing NEGARAKU before run ) . oh ya , i think we should also boycott this brand so called " Sun Drink " ( not so sure correct or not ) .Because hor , u know what , after i drink it , i feel like drinking paip water . Worse still , i feel dizzy during the run which i do not realized at that moment coz i think it was because i didnt consume my breakfast . My head was pain like hell when i went home TT . NOW OK !



Anyhow , for watever it is ,I learnt that i should be +. But I'm glad I finished the run and i'm really enjoyed it ;)



p/s : source of pictures are "steal" from terrance lim =D

The potential lies within me and up to me + recent update of my suff

I have met with some difficult personality in my life . Frustration is the overwhelming feeling i get when get along with this kind of people .But anyhow , i had learn a valuable lesson that i shouldn't be obligated to this people and of course , do not feel guilty to them too . It is important for me to understand that I am responsible for how I treat others . By the way , I can't choose how you'll treat me but i can choose how i will respond to you . I want did it in my best way or to be comfortable at least .

Well , one more thingS is that more tests , assignments and presentations for me , less time for enjoying my life . Worse still , deadline soon @@IMMA FEEL VERY EMO NOW LA ..lol
I personally do not like assignment , no because the reason that lack of attitude among members. Because of attitude difference , my goal was not shared and im pretty much sad and disappointed too . I actually notified that the difference between success and mediocrity is difference between playing to win and playing not to lose .

song

Blog Revival

More efforts asap need to rebuild this blog . Just when i viewed back my recent blogs . Everything is like SHORT AND SWEET ..........











Like tension alot lot when blogging nowadays

It's catch up time

Alot of satisfaction after hanging out with my buddies . Actually , I'm thrilled for myself and the fact that I took up some initiatives and challenges in my life . That meant a lot to me . Can I do it ? I don't really know until today but now i know enough and i shall proved that it's possible .

来..Pray sincerely^^

Sicked to death

I'm not feeling well . i'm absolutely sicked to death ....
All of the sudden , I'm fired up and wanted to start doing things instead of yakking I'm sicked , that ain't me !

Start from blogging =D

Brand new laptoppppppp part 2

Brand new laptoppppppp

what else to say ? excitedddddd la ..wohooo:)))))

p/s : picz will be uploaded very soon

羽球比赛

最近参加了学校举办的羽球比赛，以下是我的比赛感言

在32 和 16强里面， 我的比赛整体状态都还不错 ， 但是可能信心很足 ， 一到了半决赛比赛当天， 感觉到整个气氛不一样 ， 会感觉到压力.况且看到对方信心十足（college team ），感觉到不好了。再加上本身热身不够 ， 状态顿时打不出来。
最后阶段时，因为比分距离还是很大，紧张起来了，输了。

现在自我检讨后， 如果当时是自己冷静下来的话 ， 可能还有其他好办法。比赛输了的一个问题，最重要是想法太多了，虽然未打倒决赛，可是头脑已经想着了.

结束了，和不甘心的结束了

最后想提醒自己，还是要用健康的心态去比赛还有感谢我的partner 哦

That's right . Look easy

I have always had my family and relatives as well as friends unconditional support . But most of the times , I had to deal with the things all by myself .

My blood will not forgive !

I don't forgive and give a damn about the two " friends " I have .I completely trust them .

Apperance can be deceiving . Being kind and so on , these kind of things just make other people want to get closer to you . Unfortunately , I'm not be able to see them for what they truly are .( I'm not saying everyone , referring this two fellows )

p/s : I regret many things that i've done in the past but without a doubt , if we don't make mistakes , we never learn .

Not doing right things recently .. how come ?

Look Out Point

A group of me and my classmates went to Look Out Point after class .It has rained during that time . Things were nice , views were spectacular , environment was cool . But it is still the best if you can go there with your partners ...hehe

Cameron Highlands Trips

Just back from Cameron Highlands trips . The trip was fun and tired . I enjoyed it immensely .

There was some bad memory I having right now because of car accidents I had saw .There were three accidents happened yesterday with two of them I saw in live .Well I don't have any pictures of the accidents I saw it ,but I would just like to share with people and reminding all of you please be careful driving . Do not speeding for excitements. Our human bones cannot hope to challenge the unyielding steel .Drive safe, be safe .

Singapore Trip

It's been a while that I have an opportunities to go travel overseas .Hmm , I guess I cant remember actually how many years that I didn't have travel overseas . I have forgotten it coz it has been a long time @@ . teeeee^^
31.07.2010
With everything especially my college stuff seems so packed , suddenly need to leave all the works behind for few days and just PLAY . For once though , I decided not to go . Anyhow , after some serious thought , I think I should just take it easy and enjoy the trip . Well , I really surprised by myself . But I enjoyed pretty much ! :^)


p/s :Thank you GOD and everyone for everything and making the journey fun , happy and safe !

What A Day

Wa..... I'm quite bad luck today . Feeling super dizzy after badminton game with my classmates on the morning . I guess didn't have a proper breakfast ( just a Milo ) before the game was the cause. It seems rather surprising after lunch at TBR which is just near to our college , my condition still didn't improve much . In fact , my body condition had just gone from bad to worse . Worse still , I still have keyboard class to attend . Given my health on that time , with no choices available , I missed the class and went to classmate's house . I vomited in his house TOILET .

Luckily , I had one of my friend came far away from his working place to fetch me home after my S.O.S call . THX ALOT BRO !! I recovered after having some sleep . ^^

Down Down Down

It's painful when you cannot share out your sadness with someone . So , I am calling out some friends recently to have a drink . I guess it will help reduce the sadness when hanging out with friends , plus I drink beer . Argh , dumb dumbass . I feel so freaking hurt ............

But , at the end , I'm just pretty sure that I'm going to move on and embrace the reality -to be better .

I want to be happy and enjoy my life . This is it !

控制驾驭力不强，主观意识过强。意志不够坚定，思想容易受动摇,耐力亦不足,做事有虎头蛇尾的倾向,须培养定力。改改改！！

2 things

Oh my God! 3 assignments and 3 test...Goodness me !It's crap !
I got the feeling that I will be doing all these at the last minute . I still have difficulties with understanding the key words of the assignment's topic.

But go on , is all about FIFA now ain't !! I watch FIFA everyday ( just not every match) at home . Sometimes , I would hang out with mates to have a drink and also watch FIFA together .Yesterday ,after portugal thrashing north korea match (7 vs 0 ) . my friend had called me out to watch the next match at Macdonalds . The match was ok after all and at the end we got 1 free coupon each for the goal scored .

郭台铭-台湾

最近，看了关于台湾首富郭台铭的报章（尤其是关于富士康的第几跳的国际新闻）及视频，有了些感想是想分享下（不谈富士康的自杀事件）

我在其中一个视频听见他讲的这一句话，成功是個最差勁的導師，只會帶給你無知和膽怯，卻不能帶給你下一次成功所必需的經驗和智慧，听了这句话及看了有关他的视频后，觉得他是一位非常值得学习的企业家。

所谓成功之所以是最差劲的导师。是因为太过于骄傲，对自己不够厚道，所以失败并不是不好。关键在于调整心态，重新出发。所以，我们必须从失败和痛苦中补课，以退为进。一个连失败都不能承受的人，难当大业，也永远不会快乐。

ATCL rehearsal , ATCL 1

我真的很累很累..TT

Too Much Going On T T

6.5.2010-Watch movie at metro prima ( Iron Man 2 ) , yum cha with friends till night
7.5.2010-Gathering at Desa Park City
8.5.2010- went to visit high five bread town at Shah Alam , Selangor
9.5.2010- went to college to attend rehearsal for ATCL(adjustment to college life) from 11a.m.-4 p.m.
-then go to setapak yum cha with one male and female friends at midnight
-went to another friend house to help him change car battery
10.5.2010- went to batu caves and kepong with my aunt
- yum cha at night with friend then went to cousin house to help him set up stremayx and wifi connection till 1 p.m.
11.5.2010-went to one u shopping with aunt , then watch movie with friends in one u ( furry vegeance)
12.5.2010-went to college again for ATCL programme from 10a.m. -7 p.m.
13.5.2010-went to Jaya One to work(data entry)from 8 a.m./ went to college ATCL rehearsal 2
14.5.2010-went to college for ATCL 2/work again
15.5.2010-dinner with my hong kong cousin at Sunway Piramid Hotel
16.5.2010- NEED TO REST ALOT AT HOME !!College new semester begin..
17.5.2010- First day of college semester 3 / work also !!!

分享篇

最近忽然阅读到一些文章。
刚好，看过了生意上认识的批发商说写的后，突然给我突破了一些迷思，领悟，所以想分享下（顺道作为警惕）。

失败这个词对创业的年轻人是一种恐惧!
心想创业,脑海怕失败
那么如何是好呢?
做还是不做呢?
这个矛盾会出现在创业的前期....
而我面对的是学业和创业!

其实，
说到底失败就是因为决心不够!
说到底失败就是因为方向不对!
说到底失败因为选择错误!
说到底失败就是因为理想和现实的差距!
说到底....................

哇!这样说,岂不是不用创业???

其实决心是一个很大的勇气,俗语说有志者事竟成
创业的第一步我感觉最重要就是拥有坚决的决心来创业!!
既然选择创业,那么就不要回头望罗!
反正年轻,死就死罗!
当然,创业不是拿生命去做赌注
只是把风险降低罢了.
今天你创业,如果你身边100个朋友也了解你创业,但是只是能够提供你10%的成就
那么你是否要下决心放下这班朋友呢?
不是教你去绝交,只是去找心的空间
暂时决心离开他们去找新的朋友!新的市场!
上天对人和公平的!
每一个人都是有24小时
但是目前的100个朋友只能给你10%成就
那么你要再大的成就就要把握时间
再认识另外100个?1000个?10000个?
务必达到你要求的100%成就!

Semester 3 Finally ended! + Personal Stuff

Well , things always seem to work in mysterious ways . I really don't like my college this semester time table . I hate wake up so early for college . Of course , the worst feeling is waking up to my alarm clock , I just want to stay under my blankie . So this semester , I feel I have did nothing . Not much working ..not much socialising.. So , imma pretty much upset about that .Just too bad !

Well , it doesn't matter now because semester ended . So thats another lesson learnt . I'm just happy to be able to do my usual stuff at the moment like blogging ( one of them ) .

Finally , there's always the personal family things that I would like to share it out from time to time . I'm just grateful to both of my aunts which are from Hong Kong and Singapore . They actually very supportive towards me . In fact , they give me few thousand ringgit of malaysia money to me recently . Well , of course I try not to accept it at the beginning . But just knowing that they say I'm very hardworking and ambitious . It makes me feel very very grateful to them. Big Big thanks to you all from the bottom of my heart !! Do not doubt me , I'm going all the way out for making myself a better person with painstaking works and efforts .

Same goes to my aunt which is my mentor of all time , my aunt's husband is one the director of a top bank in our country .He had served the bank for at least 10 years .So , he is very talented and very experieced . Although salary is very high , they are very low profile and humbled .I guess it really help alot when I'm facing some tricky problem related to my study which is banking and finance . I always ask and listen to my aunt advice no matter what and how . They will just provide guidance , solution and inspiration to me .

Awwwwwesome The Beast Stalker 證人

Tought is already long time movie .It was a FIVE star movie . The ending was especially fantastic. I totally wasn't expecting the ending to end like this . CRAP!!

E X A M !!!

When the going get tough , the tough get going
And ;)


XD

If I Want Some , I Will Go Get Some

Competition ,you know , this is not be a problem for me in my life . I can tell you that Im not here to come last and Im not here to finish second . Not every people but I think most of them , they are competing for better grade in college . Same goes to sports and games , we try our best to beat the competitor or competitors . The world today is an ongoing race for more success.

Everything depends on the resutls . Well , Im not going to change because I got great results . I just have to be myself .I try to help my friends , my colleagues and try to be more natural . In studies , I try to study effectively and efficiently . I always do the same things and this is why I improve all the time ( I think so so ) .

In school , great results really gives more confidence , power and brighter image . I have to say that if that was so ( many advantages) , then no problem!

When "Good" Is Not Enough

Hey guys ! Let's speak out loud ! You know it's been a while . So in my whole life , I have been asking me myself what I'm gonna do when I grow up ? What I'm gonna be ?I'm now 19 . I don't know yet . So , my parents has decided to ask me what I'm gonna do coz Im like got a lot of things to do . But I think I still not sure . I still like I don't know . It's hard for me to decide. Oh yeah ! I'm just pretty upset and definitely want some genius ideas !

For some reasons , I just go through the motion of life and sometimes ended in the worst part of my life . There is no commitment and enthuasism at all from me . Anyhow , I realized that I have been behaving like that but I am determine now not to let the situation worsen coz I know a better future awaits for me . In a way , getting good results and work hard , and most importantly , be a complete person , both physically and mentally would be a sort of repayment to my parents and my aunt as well as my friends for all dedication and care they have given me .

打进社会大学，也许这就是和我的相处之道
虽然我平时插科打诨多了一点，但谁说那不是真实的世界呢？
私低下的我，认识我久了，就知道我是怎样的人。。。

时间能证明一切

Develop A Winning Team

One night after working quite late , I grabbed a copy of newspaper , hoping its page would lull me to sleep . To my surprise , it had the opposite effect , though .On the second pages of this issue was an article that caught my eye and got my mental juices flowing .It featured an interview of a successful coach .
I love the way that the story was about . This story was exciting because it said so much about teamwork .When a basketball player becomes a high-scorer , we make him a hero . But could he have done it had he been facing the opposition alone ? I doubt it . For sure , it took eight other hands to prepare the way for his successful baskets. It was a team effot all the way . So by summarize the article , there are four major attributes which characterize a winning team .First of all , a winning team play to win .The second characteristics of winning teams is that they are risk-takers . My philisophy of life is to throw the ball and go for it ! Take a risk and let what happens happen . In my college's library hangs a plaque that says ," it's far better to try and fail than to fail to try . "Next , the third characteristics of winning teams is that they continue to try harder . Last but not least , the fourth characteristics of a winning team is that each members cares about the success of every other member.

Kong Hee Fatt Choy!

Gong Xi Fa Cai everyone !!

Well , since I have more and more friends to be friend , so this year ang pau(red envelopes) are a little more than last years ....hahaha.......

During these festival , I purposely go to visit some of my friends to take ANG PAU from them . Then a , those friends also purposely come over to my house to visit me and ....to take ANG PAU from my parents .BUT , don't misunderstanding it ! The act of taking ANG PAU from each others is common and so as a gesture to mean that the recipent will enjoy a fruitful and wealthy life .

Then , there are some who want to visit my house but couldn't .Oh I'm ever so SORRY because it is either my parents not at home or I still got next rounds to attend. So I suggest you all come next year @@

Check This Out

I remember in the beginning in 2007 when it was during the SPM examination , I was so tired after the examination , both physcially and mentally exhausted . Inside my head , all were books and notes .

Obviously , those things were vital for experiences . Since then , when exam has finished , I'm like it's over , perfect , WHAT'S NEXT ?

As time goes by , I understood myself more and more . I trying hard to cope with the studies obviously . For sure , if more efforts , no doubts difficult . But first of all , pay attention , study smart and revision and again .

Somehow, I know eventually times will be tougher in the future . It doesn't really matter for me , so ,whatever comes , comes really . Just do not overwork and pressure alot on myself . As the saying goes ," all works and no play makes Jack a dull boy " , I ought to divide my time wisely so I have sufficient time for study , for socialising ,for working as well as for hanging out .

If I do all these , then I'm not only be a good student or successful "businessman" , I might just also be a PERSON.

明日英雄 Part 2

续了我的明日英雄贴，今天之帖将继续描述我的人生。

人生刚刚踏入第十九章，还是没有特别设定的目标及梦想。小时候，总是向往自由自在的生活。长大了一些却想要无忧无虑的生活。不管怎样，还是得努力打拼，因为我只知道“成功”都离不开勤奋的耕耘，勤奋一日，可得一日安眠，勤奋一生，可得幸福长眠。

我家人属于经典型的读书人，他们一直认为万般皆小品，唯有读书高。我刚好就相反，常常马耳东风，就是认为读书固然重要，但是更明白行行出状元这个浅显得道理。

还是想要提醒自己，什么时候我都能停止，就是现在不能，要不然我就是永远的输家。不要理会别人的眼光，相信自己！我还很年轻，和你拼了！！

yessssssssss

oooo.....yessssssss...

Examination has just finished and excitment flooded through me !It was a long , tough year to begin with an examination . While I'm trying to focus on my studies , my preparation for the examination has been disrupted by a series of sickness.Cough la , sneeze la , eyestrain la , breathing problem la as well as sore throat la.It make me couldn't help , only to lay down on my bed and sleep like no one's business. Somehow , at the end , everything has ended well and Im just grateful !!

Post script :It's never too late to have a happy college life!!

最近的我

最近开始了解自我关照与反省的重要，很奇怪，几乎每当睡前，都会有一股力量让我回忆自己所做的事，无论小事或大事，那种感觉好清楚，好舒服。而且，我也可以很快地入睡，一觉到天亮。
睡得好，精神好，情绪也好了。

还有，最近，很忙下，赶来赶去，生活相当充实。但是考试也快到了，一切都必须给 pause 。
我的生活忙真的是忙到了极点，忙到自己病了也不知道。呵呵。。。。要看了医生，才知道原来是累坏了。。。
由于学业，工作的关系 ， 我无法常常上网，不过我有时间一定会写写博客。还有很多东西还没来得及分享哦。。嘿嘿。。

最后，祝大家考试顺顺利利。