CrAzy

30.1.2011
Last day of work as promoter in Giant . Learn some valuable yet precious experience during work because I'm still newbie ma . Surprisingly , I also make some new friends over there .








Went back home at about 10 p.m. today . After done my daily survey form , I have my old buddy called me out to have a drink . He seems quite stressful during our chit chat and drinking session . So we went to Damansara Jaya to play pool with one more friend.
Around 3.30 a.m. , we change our plan and instead of going yum cha again ,we have decided to go Cyber Cafe to play computer games . Everything was ok until power was interrupted .As expected , everyone complained and there are some who feel dissatisfied , left and bye bye . There are at least 5 times the power cut off in between the time when we are over there. At the end , just left 3 of us and workers over there inside the Cyber Cafe .
At 6++ a.m. , time for breakfast . So, we went to this old Dim Sum restaurant in SS2 .
Though is the end ? No ! wa@@@@@
We still got energy to play badminton until 9 a.m. and that's the ending . Tired and crazy one..

Prove yourself Chee Kiat

To me ( for a student ),
Who says rich one no need work ?
Who says poor one must work ?

Why rich one no need work ?
Why poor one must work ?


I have proved enough in studies . ehhh , shouldn't say the word proved . But the fact is I'm fed up with lecturers umpteen times threatening we the students that only a good grade in studies can assure us a good future .

Well ,for me I think is important to understand that a good grade in your studies does not guarantee you success in the future , but more likely to do so when compared with another student with bad grade in the future .

I would like to prove myself in work next time .
Is time for me to make a change - differently . First of all , I want to get to know myself even more first ( will share it out on next post ) .

I got to fight for my dream .
Right ! i must all way out . what i think is what i become .

你什么时候都能停止，但是，就是现在不能，不然你将成为永远的输家

Hot News

what ?! one utama old wing is going to shut down for 6 months ..











not much affecting me ..LOL

媽，我真不孝 ( Sharing )

媽，我真不孝，我真沒用，

每月的工資，連基本的供你生活我都做不到，還要你這般年紀，

卻還在為生活費而勞碌，你嘴裡說着沒關係，你還能做，

但你比誰更清楚你的腳不能長時間操勞，但你還是笑着帶過。

就算你常聽到誰誰家的孩子，一個月給父母多少家用，但你從不比較

就算你聽到鄰家的孩子帶父母親出去旅行，但你總說，旅行，長途拔涉

好不辛苦，倒不如在家看肥皂劇，也是可以看到其他國家的人情世故。

親朋戚友家添購了按摩椅，我好想買一架，但我連十分之一的貸款都供不起。

我說想申請credit card，但你說你看到親戚朋友都成為卡奴，不想我成為他們一分子，

我說我會節制有規劃的用，但你說如果我申請就跟我斷絕母子關係。

我說要買套新年衣服給你，你說上次買的還穿不到幾次，還能穿，我說你沒有新的衣服，

你說前幾個月朋友從KL買了回來，她不能穿送給你的還沒穿過，讓我不要操心，還說人老了，隨便穿就好。

我硬是在夜市路邊攤買了一條布料不錯，借錢不貴，我認為還不錯看的衣服給你，我回來晚了，你睡了，

我把它放在客廳，你隔天看到過後開心的跟我說，很適合，說你有穿這種款式的，那天我很開心，因為是我選的。

媽，有你真好，因為你都是把我照顧得好好的，而我，卻還沒有開始有能力照顧你，

媽，有你真好，因為你從不把我跟其他人比較，然而，我卻還庸庸碌碌當個月光族。

媽，您好辛苦，你孩子不孝，沒用。我已經盡了力但卻不成氣候，我好慚愧，300塊我都拿不出來給你過年

我拿了150給你，你卻不要，我硬塞給你，你說paiseh，車險期限快到了，差不多800，說我沒剩下多少，

我再硬塞給你，說過年應該的，而去年你用私己錢幫我還了車險錢接近900，從沒跟我要回，我都要找個洞來鑽了。

媽，容許我表揚你，你是在世界上對我最好的人，你是我最好最棒的媽媽，謝謝你無怨無悔的付出。

果然“世上只有媽媽好”是唱對的。

吊人—是一门学问 ( Sharing )

“吊”有贬义，所以“吊人”就是贬低别人，但是有分为嬉、笑、怒、骂4个等级。朋友间“吊”来“吊” 去属于“嬉”，那是开玩笑；一不小心火气上升则会升级到“笑”，那就带有讽刺的味道；这个时候如果没有人加以控制就会升级到“怒”，脸色明显不对而且弥漫火药味；接下来就会爆发到“骂”，污言秽语满天飞，平时的不满以及不为人知的内幕就会爆出来，旁观者抢沙发的好时机咯～哈哈哈……

吊人很爽，但掌握怎么让被吊的人不会不爽就是一门高深的学问。首先，被吊的人可分类为：玻璃型、海绵型、炸弹型和面具型，所以选择对手直接关系到技巧的运用。玻璃型的人内心容易受伤，所以吊他的时候语气不能太重，须吊一下，捧一下，拿捏须恰到好处；海绵型的人在表面上看起来是任吊任骂，因为他看起来好像只会吸收，但是一旦海绵饱和后的爆发将会很惊人，所以最后吊到海绵宝宝爆发的那个人好自为之吧；炸弹型的人经不起吊，一吊他就爆炸，除非你有把握打架赢他，要不然少惹为妙；面具型的人狡猾，吊他的时候他好像不在乎，其实他在找机会摆个弯shoot回你，所以平时多读点书长长知识，要不然被吊都不知道。

吊人切忌一昧的骂粗话，偶尔用一两句加强语气是可以，但是频繁的使用则曝露了自己的学识水平低落，说的话自然就没有说服力。有些人则惯用人身攻击，这招不过在战略性胜粗话一点点而已，一旦遇到自身能力比自己强的对手也就只能投降了。

以上的“吊”被分类为“吵架”，因为基本上毫无技巧可言，小孩子的把戏；接下来的“吊”则被分类为“理论”，强调技巧与道理的结合，争取旁人认同。

最普遍的就是“牛头不对马嘴式理论法”，这招通常是极端主观的自high白目的得意技，使用者往往以绝对主观的角度看待理论中的课题，对于对手所发出的质疑一概不理，坚持并不断强调自己的观点，形成自讲自high状，基本上无法得到认同，在理论中往往会处于下风。再高级的吊人绝学则是“举例、反问、对比combo”，此连招必须配合强而有力的例子、一针见血的提问、强烈震撼的比照以及配合使用者本身的地位与学识，必让对手见血封喉，甘拜下风。

当然，吊人还是要靠实战经验，注重攻击语气的分量，随着对手的进攻意识对自己的语气进行调整，当对手表现出强烈的进攻意识则语气必须比对手更强；当对手有意退让谈和则说话不可绝对，避免困兽之斗，此乃兵家大忌。
所谓“仁者无敌”，对待每个人都好自然就没有人会吊你，就算你吊人被吊的人也会觉得很爽，这就是吊人的最高境界—“吊人很爽，被吊的人也不会不爽！！！”

p/s : Sharing is caring

What's Going On?！( General )

Popular Bookstore is having promotion from 13 January 2011 till 31 January 2011 at Bandar Utama Shopping Centre ( Old Wing )






Right! I'm coming !

A moment I felt Relieved ( Entertaiment & Living )

17/01/2011
Hollla ! Celebrate my exam and also birthday ( wai keat too ) with my classmate at Shabu Shabu , Times Square . Officially say tata to my exam ......




18/01/2011
Went to dye my hair finally =D become Kam mo mo Zai ..
Then at 7 p.m., went to bsd club to attend a free workout session conducted by the club i guess . With my gym kaki Terrance too .
Overall , 4 ppl only attending including me and Terrance so kinda weird but at least everyone have learn a trade or few about fitness .

After that , meet two buddies for yum cha session .

19/01/2011
Went to One Utama Shopping Centre with two of my aunts for a lunch but actually is to celebrate my birthday too . Not only that hor , one of my aunt also give me ang pau =D



Well lastly , i felt relieved after collecting what i would labeled it as a bad debt from someone or maybe customers . If you all didnt get my feeling , it's alright . i gotcha :)

But for now i felt just RELIEVED la u kmow . words just cannot explain how much i have been through but its been really a ride for me and i just want this to be a lesson for me in the future .

20 ( Living )

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LO













:)

闲情逸致 ( General )

每个人都有他无奈的地方。
所有不好的事我都扛了阿。
在这件事上面，我做的比说得多。
我已经尽量把他做的面面俱到 。

"有时间不去赚钱的男人。。你们怎么看？" ( General )

最近在cari 潜水的时候看到这个帖。。。。。。

我的男友，很喜欢上面子书。
很喜欢跟里面的女生谈天，也喜欢写自己的心情啊什么的在里头。
我很不欣赏他这样的性格。我认为一个真正做大事的男人不应该一得空就是“住”在面子书里。
每天放工了没有出去了就是开面子书。
身为男人，是不是应该想想怎么去找多点钱怎么出去闯世界啊还是怎么去创业的吗？
终日躲在面子书里，面子书可以帮你赚到钱吗？
各位女人，你们怎么看待像我男友这样的男人？

还是喜欢泡cari .. 可以学东西之外，有时还能消磨时间。Right!

No Shouting ( Heart and Soul )

ONCE a professor asked his students :" Why do we shout in anger ? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset ?" The students thought for a while before one of them said :" We shout because we lose our calm ."

"But why shout when the other person is just next to you ? Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice ?"

The students gave various answers , none of which satisfied the professor .

Finally he explained :" When two people are angry with each other , their hearts distance . To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other . The angrier they are , the louder they will have to shout to hear each other through the great distance ."

Then he asked :" What happens when two people fall in love ? They don't shout at each other but talk softly . Why ? Because their hearts are very close . The distance between them is very small .

"When they love each other even more , what happens? They do not speak - they only whisper and get closer to each other in their love .

"Finally they do not even need to whisper . They only look at each other , that's all . That is how close two people are when they love each other ."

So ,when you argue , do not let your hearts get distant or say words that distance each other even more , or there may come a day when the distance is so great you will not find the path back to each other .

p/s : this tale is certainly a nice one coz it is so true and based on facts . Read these stories on THE START newspaper.:)

Sentences of 08.01.2011 ( General )

台上一分钟，台下十年工..真的！！

EXAM ( Living )

07.01.2011-17.01.2011
feeling cold but still hanging on












I hate you la exam !

Awful and Frustrating but stayed really positve ( Education & Living )

Having muscle cramp as result of yesterday futsal with my friends . Alot of fun there because my legs didnt touch football for ages .Didnt sleep well b4 tat day and most importantly , no warm up before match , tats why muscle cramp .( a lesson for me )

Well , just went on to check my Banking Security paper coursework marks . TWO FULL MARKS really SURPRISE ME @@ So i have a few things to say .

I think some people will doubt about my marks .So, I just try my best no get affected by those negative comments . Right , one of the advantages to this people who ever doubt me is the experience behind my back of knowing that i've achieved quite amount ,at least I have that in my bag and I can show anytime .It was all my hard painstaking efforts.
Lastly , I will stayed really positive through out the time .
Interesting ? Definitely ! Expected ? of course NO !

修养 ( Education )

通过修养,
使人严肃而不孤僻 ,
活泼而不放浪,
稳重而不呆板 ,
热情而不轻狂,
沉着而不寡言,
和气而不盲从.

more about me LOL ( Living )

I'm still awake and having insomnia . decided something interestingly . feel like want to write something on my blog for 1 week straight . try my best lo


weeeeee . RIGHT !

01.01.2011 ( Entertaiment & Friendship )

Just went back from The Sanctuary with my buddy . very unexpectedly of course . my buddy say we will going there with MBPJ to have a drink .( this not so important )



Perhaps the most unique things I have found at The Sanctuary is the Ice Bar . After all , the Ice Bar is the first outlet in its kind in whole Malaysia . It offering patrons with some drinks in freezing temperature but sadly I didnt have the chance to go in .

At the end , I have made some new friends over there n all r drunk but no worries im the exceptional one =D