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Life is Like a Cup of Coffee ( Sharing )

Just read through this article and i can only tell u that it is awesome ! it motivated me and lifted my mood eventually.hope you guys also like it =D

A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.

Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups - porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to the coffee.

When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said: "If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups have been taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.

Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups... And then you began eyeing each other's cups.

Now consider this: Life is the coffee; the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life, and the type of cup we have does not define, nor change the quality of life we live.

Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee. Savor the coffee, not the cups! The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything. Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.

摩尔的梦想

是不是没有黑暗就无法躲藏？
是不是没有双眼就无法流泪？
是不是没有双脚就无法奔跑？
。。。。。

不是那样的，你还有梦。
你可以飞翔。

p/s : Currently reading this new book . talking about a dream a young man want to achieve . This is definitely my kind of book!

Don't pray to get God's attention to fix some wrong .
Pray to get your own attention and realize that nothing needs fixing.-Messiah

How true I think it was ..

Bill Gates

Failing is a path to success

One tired guy

As I lay awake at night ,I think of what I've been through and how I feel .I feel mentally and physically exhausted . Feel like no one understand me suddenly .












But I kept moving on .

Realize You Are Responsible for Your Own Happiness

Just came through one article that caught my attention . So I think is fair to share it out - Realize You Are Responsible for Your Own Happiness . This article is especially for those who feel unhappy for some reasons . It also serves as an important lesson for me i guess .

Here we go ..

Sometimes we carry a sense of entitlement that makes us believe other people owe us , that they are somehow responsible for our happiness . If we are sad , they need to give us their support . If we are lonely , they should keep us company . If we are in a relationship, our mates are supposed to protect us from pain . They should be sorry when we are mad and attentive when we are sad . They should promise that no matter what happens , they would never hurt us . These are impossible expectations .

Although it is normal and self-respecting to want others to treat you well , in the end it is your responsibility to take care of yourself . If you are in a situation in which you aren't being treated with respect , it is up to you to remove yourself from that situation .

You may have had a friend who constantly complains about the way her boyfriend treats her . The first time , you feel awful for her . The second time , you hold her hand and agree that the guy is a jerk . But after listening to her complaints again and again , the question inevitably becomes ," How much of this are you going to take before you stand up for yourself ?"There is a fine line between being taken advantage of and letting yourself be taken advantage of .

You have to be honest with yourself about your circumstances . You have to face things that you might rather ignore . For instance , you may have a friend who turns out to be selfish and deceitful .Sadly , it becomes your responsibility to end the friendship if your attempts at working things out are unsuccessful .

Unrealistic expectations always end up hurting you. The more you believe others owe you , the sadder you are when they don't deliver .The " if he loved me , he would do this and he wouldn't do that" game is a setup for headache . If you are able to say to yourself ," It is my job to be happy . It is my job to take care of myself , to be healthy and to give myself the things I need then you are owning your power to be happy or not .

You can't make rules in relationships to ensure that you never get hurt . You can't leave it up to someone else to make sure that you are happy . If you do , you will end up feeling disappointed and sometimes even brokenhearted . But you can take responsibility for your own happiness . You can be sure that you don't always end up in the position of the victim . You do this by acknowledging whose job it is to take care of you -yours . You do this by putting yourself in situations that are healthy , with people who are good to you and who understand friendship and commitment . When you find yourself unhappy , you look at your circumstances and figure out what you can do to change then . This is what it means to take responsibility for your happiness , and this is one way you can begin showing yourself the love you deserve.

p/s : NOTHING CAN BRING YOU PEACE BUT YOURSELF

Phew

Finally , no more assignment and midterm test !Much to my delight , I did well this time. Keep it out !=D

Hope for Reformation one day in our country

Im so obsessed to Dato Anwar Ibrahim and Nga Kor Ming recently . The way they all is , unlike BN who just abuse the power and the rights of people , make me feel respected to them .


p/s : may Pakatan Rakyat form the government and fall on the BN one day!

My heart my moods , My life my songs

Bon Jovi - Its my life
Bertie Higgins - Casablanca
Enrique Iglesias - Hero
Westlife -Flying without wings
Eminem and Rihanna - Love the Way You Lie
The Black Eyed Peas - The Time
Bee Gees - How Deep Is Your Love
Abba - Fernando , Chiquitita
Bruno Mars - Grenade